And yes, several are our age! Among them: I had no idea how well-written it would be, how many new things I’d learn, and in what detail! The book is comprised of 20 essays on different aspects of kink, written by 15 well-known leaders in their particular brand of kink.
I approached The Ultimate Guide to Kink knowing I’d learn something new. (Are true kinksters laughing at my innocence?) People get off on this chemical rush, which many describe as feeling energized, high, or transcendent… In the context of a sexually charged scene, some people, when they are aroused (and their pain tolerance is much higher), process a face slap in a different way: it feels good. When people experience pain, adrenaline, endorphins, and natural painkillers flood their nervous system. Imagine my surprise reading this in Tristan Taormino’s introduction: I couldn’t imagine bringing pain intentionally into my sex life. I’ve been in two devastating automobile accidents with residual and lifelong pain, I shattered my shoulder in ten places two years ago, I have arthritis in my neck - I know pain. I’ll admit it, I’ve never understood what could be pleasurable about pain. Whether you’ve been a long-time kinkster or you’re wanting to try something new, this book can be your guide. However! I’m open-minded and curious about all things sexual, and I have a duty to my readers with more varied proclivities and experimental attitudes to learn everything I can and guide you to the best resources.
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